Youth at Heart Development

Children with attention deficit disorder often have difficulty with simple social interactions. They may struggle with reading social cues, talk too much, interrupt frequently, or come off as aggressive or “too intense.” Their relative emotional immaturity can make them stand out among children their own age, and make them targets for unfriendly teasing.

Keep in mind that many kids with ADHD are exceptionally intelligent and creative and will eventually figure out for themselves how to get along with others and spot people who aren’t appropriate as friends. Moreover, personality traits that might exasperate parents and teachers may come across to some people as quirky and charming.

Helping a child with attention deficit disorder improve social skills

It's hard for children with ADHD to learn social skills and social rules. You can help your child with ADD/ADHD become a better listener, learn to read people’s faces and body language, and interact more smoothly in groups.

• Speak gently but honestly with your child about his or her challenges and how to make changes.

• Role-play various social scenarios with your child. Trade roles often and try to make it fun. 

• Be careful to select playmates for your child with similar language and physical skills. 

• Invite only one or two friends at a time at first. Watch them closely while they play. 

• Have a zero tolerance policy for hitting, pushing and yelling in your house or yard. 

• Make time and space for your child to play, and reward good play behaviors often.